Rediscovering Friendship: How to Nurture Your Relationships in Your New Chapter
Hey there, new mama! So, you’ve spent the last few months keeping a tiny human alive (yay, you!) and maybe wondering, "Wait, where did all my friends go?". Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Whether you're trying to reconnect with your old squad or looking to make some new friends who understand that 9 PM is the new midnight, this post is for you.
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Chances are your social life has had about as much action as your yoga pants (speaking of which, check out Mum Tum leggings, because who said leggings aren't pants?). At this point, you're probably questioning if your home is the black hole where friendships go to die. But fret not! Here’s how to rejuvenate your social scenes and catch up on all that gossip you missed!
Step One: Embrace Your Inner Detective – Yep, you’re going to have to do some Facebook stalking. This doesn’t mean going full private-eye on your ex’s new partner but rather seeing what your pre-baby friends have been up to. Who’
From Awkward Hugs to Coffee Dates: The Hilarious Journey of Adult Friendship Crafting!
Sure, now you have a small human who might spit up on your clean blouse (antique vomit is the new eau de toilette, right?), but this isn’t an excuse to avoid the outside world. Here are some fun, audacious ways to plant brand new seeds for friendships!
Step Two: Use Baby as Bait (No babies were harmed in the writing of this article). Babies are chick magnets; kid you not. Head to your local park or library's story hour. Nothing breaks the ice like two babies wrestling over the same toy Jesus-style in the middle of a circle.
Step Two-and-a-Half: All Hail Social Media! – Use mom groups and local meet-up apps like Peanut or MeetUp. Technology is your wingwoman! Just ensure you're dressed to impress from the waist up (the usual Zoom protocol).
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Step Three: Schedule Those Dates
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Repeat after me, "Thou shalt not flake!" Trust me; other people’s last showers might have been approximately the same time as a total solar eclipse. Be the friend that sticks to plans!
Step Four: Open Your Heart (and Wine) – Share your tales of sleep deprivation, quirky baby habits, and struggles (like finding a bra that fits post-baby). This invites an open exchange surpassed only by reality TV drama!
Your existing friendships can be nurtured simply by being genuine and committed. Call them up randomly, send them baby pictures, and remind them they still rank high up on your ‘favorites’ list.
Step Five: Rinse and Repeat – Building and preserving friendships is very much like maintaining a fitness regimen during postpartum. It demands commitment, sometimes discomfort, but the joy and satisfaction at the end are priceless. Much like the bliss of slipping into your fave Mum Tum leggings after a hectic day!
So here’s to charming new buddies, holding onto cherished ones, and keeping your social life intact—an accomplishment bigger than binge-watching five seasons of your favorite show! And if all else fails, remember: at the very least, you’ve always got your kids—who might grow up to be the most fabulous friends of all!
Until next time—go forth, mingle, and may your wine glass be ever full! 🥂
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