How to Nurture Your Friendships When Life Gets Chaotic

How to Nurture Your Friendships When Life Gets Chaotic

How to Nurture Your Friendships When Life Gets Chaotic

Headline: Discover the Art of Juggling: Why Keeping Friends Close During Life's Circus Might Earn You a Degree in Emotional Acrobatics!

Listen up, super-parent-in-training! If you're reading this, chances are you're somewhere between diaper duty and a quest to reclaim your pre-baby glam vibe. Welcome to the exclusive international club of new parents—a delightful circus where the main act is you trying to catch some sleep and maintain what once was your vibrant social life.

Your friends? They want to know you’re alive and kicking—albeit with a few more yawns and an unexpected affinity for mystery stains on your clothes. Fret not; this baby-traveling-into-the-motherhood dimension will only add layers to your charm and humor!

Reminder: Multi-tasker extraordinaire is now your official title! Wear it with pride.

In this new world, maintaining friendships is more than just responding with cheerful emojis and offering a semi-coherent "I'm alive!" text every now and then. Fear not—we're about to embark on a wild roller-coaster ride to friendship nirvana.

Pretend to Adult Like a Pro

Let's all admit it—when juggling parenting, keeping house, and just trying to remember what day of the week it is, sometimes the thought of putting on pants with a button seems impossible. But when it comes to friendships, a little effort every now and then can go a long way!

Trust

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us; these folks were with you before the stretch marks and sleep-deprivation. They love you—even the new, occasionally frazzled version. A quick coffee over Zoom in your favorite maternity leggings or leggings-for-the-Mum-Tum is better than a missed conversation. Pro-tip: Dry shampoo and a good filter can work wonders.

Zoom-versations and Walk-n-Talks

Meetups IRL might not always be possible when suddenly our little bundles of joy have taken over the schedule. Enter Zoom-versations—or the walk-n-talk pedestrian style. Friends won’t mind the baby cooing; those baby squeaks might even prompt a pleasant reminiscence of when they too were walking hobbits with a stroller.

A virtual hangout adds an extra layer of hilarity—like when the baby surprisingly contributes to the conversation or when you need to tilt the camera to hide the mountain of toys behind you.

Remember: Cameras off is your safety net, embracing pajamas-as-daywear is an art.

Send the Ambassadors

This sounds like secretive government-esque work, but it’s not. Send love notes, memes, and outlandish GIFs—your digital ambassadors to remind your friends they’re missed, even if Baby Picasso has created another food-on-the-wall art masterpiece.

Receiving mutual love back (virtual or via good old snail mail) boosts morale and keeps friendships alive, especially when your attempt to explain 'sleep regression' leaves a bemused audience of one: your

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reflection. Hot tip: A meme a day keeps the friendship doom away!

Embrace the Pop-in Surprises

A trip to the grocery store by yourself eventually becomes your cocktail-hour-in-Vegas equivalent of yore. Utilize this solo-time by dropping off a little something at a friend's. Managing these sporadic social rendezvous does double duty, offering companionship for both you and your baby-deprived inner voice.

Opt for teething-biscuits or banana chips (a.k.a the snacks of parenting champions), drop by, say "hi" with a feather boa wave, and dash before things get chaotic. These impromptu social interruptions are refreshingly appreciated—and the mess left behind, well, that’s daycare's problem.

Sneaky surprise alert: Sometimes being MIA isn't a crime; it’s reality TV.

Set Boundaries and Nap Together

Polite parents need boundaries. Sometimes a phone call needs that "please leave a message after the beep" favour. Your dear friends will understand—you’re consistently cooing to a mini-human who loves all-night parties. It’s the modern friendship dance.

Feeling overwhelmed? Nap together virtually. Silence is golden, especially among friends who understand being 'zonked out' is just another Tuesday.

Bonus: FaceTime nap dates are a thing; embrace it, fashionistas!

Happy Motherhood, Happy Friendship

In the fabulous chaos of motherhood and nurturing friendships, remember... both can indeed co-exist with a sprinkle of humor, a smidgen of grace, and a whole lot of Emamaco precious leggings—whether you’re rocking the bump or snuggling the baby!

So, conjure that cheeky smile, invite the chaos, and invest in timeless friendships! Now go forth, style, and smile—leggings, eyeliner, and pacifier in tow. The circus of life awaits!

Chic sign-off: Keep sipping, keep laughing, and remember… you are the ringmaster of this brashly beautiful circus we call life! ```
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