How to Nurture Friendships When Life Feels Overwhelming
"Surviving Adulting: Keeping Friends When Ghosting is Tempting!"
Hello super-momma! Welcome to the rollercoaster of postpartum life. đ˘ From midnight feedings to diaper explosions that defy all laws of physics, it's hard to remember what a social life feels like. Just yesterday, it seems, you were a party animal, queen of the latte catch-ups, and social butterflying from event to event. But now, your squad goals have dwindled to simply keeping everyone alive for the day. We feel you! Fear not, today weâre diving deep into how you can keep these vital adult friendships thriving without losing your last shred of sanity.
Let's Get Real About Expectations
This isnât the time to expect that your friends are hanging on the edge of their seats for your response to that meme two days ago. Let them know that you are currently in a mother-shaped bubble of chaos. Send a quick emoji - yes, even if it's just the good ol' thumbs up đ - because sometimes thatâs all you can muster at 3 AM awake-for-no-reason o'clock.
Newsflash: Real Friends Will Understand! Theyâve probably been through their own zombie-stage; they get it.
The Power of Short 'n Sweet
Long-winded catch-ups are sooo pre-baby you. Embrace the beauty of shor
Quick fix: Baby snoozes, you touch bases! Those nap times are sacred windows of opportunity.
Virtual Hangouts to the Rescue
While jet setting to meet the gals might be out of the question for a while, virtual hangouts are a new momâs best friend. Pour yourself a glass of something sparkly (caffeine or cava, your choice) and meet your homies in the Matrix. Zoom, Skype, Facetime - claim your platform and schedule a giggle-inducing hour that doesnât require real pants.
Pro-tip: Wear your super comfy maternity or Mum Tum leggings - they're as stylish as they are stretchy!
Master the Art of the Audio Clip
Letâs be honest, some days the thought of typing an entire message sentence is exhausting. Enter audio messages! A quick voice recording brings out your personality, allows you to vent or laugh hysterically over that one thing the baby did, and reconnect with your crew. Plus, who doesnât love hearing a familiar voice?
Bored of typing? Let your voice do the talking!
Setting Friendship Dates
Put that amazing routine
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Date Your Friends! Pencil in a quick weekly coffee fix (real or virtual).
Include Them in Your New Normal
Donât be afraid to invite your friends along on some of your daily adventures. They can help with strolls in the park, your elusive coffee run, or even a comedian-worthy commentary as you fumble through storytime at the library. The reality is, some friends actually adore babies and want to share in your new world!
The Magical 'Me Time'
Sometimes itâs not just about making time for others, but ensuring you have precious âme timeâ. After all, a recharged mama is a happy mama. When the babyâs with a sitter or napping blissfully, nourish your soul. Your friends will appreciate a fully charged version of you.
Remember: Invest in self-care; everyone benefits!
The Parting Thoughts of a Glam New Mom
In this whirlwind called new-mom life, no friendship is perfect, nor needs to be. As long as there's love, understanding, and the occasional adult rant or celebration, youâre doing just fine.
So embrace the chaos, laugh till you (almost) pee your pants, and donât forget, your village is crucial. It truly does take one to raise a child, and another one to keep you sane. Also, while youâre at it, slip into some stylish maternity or Mum Tum leggings, because darn it, you deserve it!
Until next time, keep laughing, keep nurturing, and always be ready to send that "I'm still alive" emoji! đŚ¸ââď¸
